Monday, May 25, 2009

The credit card people are our friends?

Remember when you were a kid and begged your mom to buy that cereal with the cool prize in it. I still can remember getting a Tony the Tiger and Woody the Wood Pecker spoon in my cereal. It got to the point my mom would not take any of us 5 kids to the grocery store because of the fight we would make over getting the cereal with the prize in it. 

Well our "friends" at Discover Card have a treat for your kids. They have partnered  with General Mills Cereals and are offering a Discover debit card in their boxes of cereal. Lets not just get the kids hooked on six dollar a box cereal infused with loads of artificial color, flavor and lots of sugar, lets get them used to using the Discover card. 

Folk I am not an alarmist or whacko, but they are targeting out kids for using credit. It is all about branding. If they can get them hooked early enough, they have them. But this is a new low even for the credit people. These guys are not your friends and they are after your kids. 

Teach your kids that using credit is bad and that cash still works  and works well. People who spend cash at the grocery store spend 50% than those using credit or debt card. I know by switching my habit to cash only, my spending habits have changed. What about yours. For more information about topics like this log onto our website www.lighthousefinancialcounseling.com

Step away from the cereal isle!!!!!!!!!

The credit card people are our friends?

Friday, May 8, 2009

What to do when there is a change in job status

With all of the unemployment figures going on, we all know someone who has been laid off, downsized, rightsized, top-grade, or just plain old let go. This is such a huge blow to all of our egos and sends many of us into a tail spin. Several people has contacted us and asked the question "what should I do financially when I have had a change in job status". 

Well the first thing to do is to sit down with your spouse or a close friend and unpack your emotional bags. Get it out and process it. In many cases this is something that has happened to you based upon the economy and not something you have done personally.  Even if it may have been something that you did, remember that "failure in an event, not a person". I know this is so much easier to say than to do. I know of one guy who went on a job interview 3 days after being let go and was still so upset with his previous employer that he talked about how bad of a company they were during his interview. Guess what? He did not get the job. So I would suggest getting it out of your system as soon as you can so you can move on in a healthy positive way.

Next, sit down and put together a new written budget based upon your new income level. ( we have the forms for free  at www.lighthousefinancialcousnseling.com) Start trimming back things like the cable bill, cell phone bills, and eating out. It is very crucial to adjust your lifestyle before you lose your job or as you lose your job, not six to 8 months later. Do not spend any more money than you have coming in the door.

After this, we should work on paying only the minimum amount on any credit cards or consumer loans and save as much cash as you can. They say it may take 4 to 6 for every $10,000 your make to get a job. So if a person was looking for a job that paid $40,000 a year, it could take 16 to 24 weeks to get a new job.

You should contact each of your creditor and let them know you want to work with them during this time of crisis but you need their help by lowering your interest rates. Also contact your home mortgage company and see if you may be eligible for a "work out package" or a mortgage modification if you house payment is more that 25 to 35 % of your income.

Start looking for a job ASAP. Don't wait for unemployment to run out. Don't spend too much time looking on the internet for a job. Experts estimate that only 1% to 2% of the people find a job on the internet. (www.48days.com). Call friends, family, members and work contacts to let them know you are looking for work. Network as much as you can. Develop a list of contacts and keep track of who is sending you hot leads.

Stay connected with healthy friends and people who will support you and be honest with you when you need their support and when you need a good kick in the pants to get going. 

Stay in prayer. Keep searching the Scripture to see what God may be trying to reveal to during this time of crisis. The verse I have keep repeating to my self is Philippians 2:3-4 Be anxious for nothing but in everything  by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your request be known to God  and the peace of God which surpasses all comprehension will guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus. This has helped me during so many tough time. Maybe there are other verses that have helped you. If so share them with us.